Consent & Safety

This space exists because trust is possible. We take that seriously.

What This Is

  • —A space for authentic intimate audio connection
  • —An alternative to performative visual pornography
  • —A practice in present, consensual intimacy
  • —An invitation-only space for adults

What This Is Not

  • —Not a sex work platform — no payment for services
  • —Not a dating or social networking space
  • —Not a space for harassment or coercion
  • —Not a replacement for in-person intimacy

Foundational Principles

Enthusiastic consent is required for all interactions

You control what you share and when

No means no, always

Silence is not consent

You can withdraw consent at any time

Consent & Contributions

  • —Contributors must be 18 years of age or older
  • —Every identifiable person in a recording must have given informed, explicit consent to being recorded
  • —Every identifiable person must also consent to the recording being shared within this space
  • —Consent must be ongoing, and may be withdrawn at any time
  • —Every contribution is reviewed by a person before it enters the library
  • —If consent is withdrawn, the recording is removed

Safety & Moderation

  • —Every submission is listened to and reviewed before publication
  • —Nothing in the library is published with a name, profile or identifying detail
  • —No recording is ever linked publicly to the person who shared it
  • —Zero tolerance for coercion, non-consensual content, or anyone under 18
  • —Content is never shared, sold or distributed outside this space
  • —Reports and removal requests are acted on, always

Report a concern, or ask for a contribution to be removed: safety@spacebetweenus.online

On Privacy

We are careful about the word anonymous, because it is a promise we would rather make precisely. What we say instead is that contributions are unattributed: nothing in the library names, pictures or points to the person who shared it.

Recordings are held privately and reached only through this space. They are not published anywhere else, and they are never sold or traded.

No contributor identities are ever shown to listeners. If you would like a recording you shared taken down, write to us and it will be removed.

Legal Framework

  • —All participants must be 18+
  • —Recording anyone without their consent is prohibited and unlawful
  • —Violation of consent will result in permanent removal and potential legal action
  • —Platform cooperates with law enforcement for illegal activity

Community Guidelines

  • —Respect boundaries explicitly stated
  • —Ask before escalating intimacy
  • —Honour privacy — what's shared stays private
  • —No unsolicited intimate content in general spaces
  • —Authentic expression, not performance